I'm not sure if Mrs Bhupalan ever taught at BBGS or Sentul Convant. She was our headmistress when I sat for my MCE in 1975. She was, in many ways a role model for us-she was a strong advocate for womens rights and was very outspoken about it-very frequently in the newspapers too.
Only problem was that she could stop many of us in our tracks ( like a deer in headlights) with one look and frequently used her "powers" of turning your legs to jelly
Tony - Why-lah, were you in the boys school opposite?? No, I did not go to BBGS, I got a seat in St John's, but had to forfeit that to go to India for Medicine. I was so heartbroken because it was so difficult to get that St John's seat - only 9 girls out of a class of 52 got into Form 6 and I was one of the nine!!
Gurdeep - On the first day of school - in Sentul Convent - Mrs Pandian made all the Indian girls stand up. I did too & she said," You can sit down, as you have just transfered from Kuala Lipis." She then blasted the girls for a good 20 minutes, telling them, that you are lazy, you all don't want to study like the Chinese girls, you all have boyfriends etc, etc
She ranted & raved for so long, & you know in our Eastern countries, do we ever say anything back to our teachers?? Unlike here?? Some of the girls started crying & some where beginning to be sick. She finally stopped.
All her classes with us, no studies, dress up like a China doll - in expensive sarees & always digress from the subject to teach!! We all studied her subject on our own.
Even after so many years, I can never forget that experience on the first day of class. Our class monitor was a very nice Chinese girl - she was thinking of reporting her to the Mother Superior. The Tamil girls all stopped her.
Anywayz, most of us became doctors, teachers, lawyers & other professionals!
What subject do u teach? primary school? high school? Well, being in Malaysia, I'm Jack of all trades. I teach, English, Bahasa Mealyu, Music and Lukisan. Teaching in Primary School
See, to me, having to give up everything in Msia and move to the US for a man (for love) is a courages decision, mind sharing with us ur love story? eg: how did u know him? how long u 2 been together b4 u decide to marry him and move to the US? what are ur parents/families thoughts about this rship......(Lakshmi..if u think this is too personal, u dont have to answer my nosy question ok? no obligation ya)
What do u do to prepare urself for this big transition? (moving to the US) To tell you the truth, I haven't done anything to prepare myself. Everything is so overwhelming. I feel even though I'm not working at the moment, I feel I'm under stress to accoplish a lot of things before I leave. Lots of loose ends to tie up. I think, the reality is going to hit me at the airport when I'm leaving. Everything is so surreal right now.
What other languages do u speak besides English? I speak English, Malay, Tamil and e tien tien Mandarin.
How did u hear about myBuddies? Eddie introduced it to me, becuase he was finding how to traslate my Birth cert into English. And I got hooked on it ever since.
What do u think about us? (can tahan lah right? heheh..)
Oh ya..one more important question, where can we have the best Indian food in KL?????? or even beyond KL....also can...i think all of us don't mind drive far to makan! Ok, Best Indian Food for me would be Pandi's. They have a chain. I started going to them after classes in Uni. The batch in the pic and I unanimously agree, Pandi near UH hospital is the BEST!!!
Pinky - I nak have a reception. But they all feel, we should wait first and then have in a few months later.
Our Dear Mrs F.R Bhupalan retired and made life Hell for the Methodist College Student where she became a Principal. I went in after she retired. My time in MGS was Mrs Chin. Another terryfying woman.
Param Ka, you are so lucky lah, got a place in St John. When I wanted to go there, I was unlucky, cause the space were filled. I was crying and crying because I thought my chance of meeting the most handsomest boys were lost. I'm so sorry that you had to endure a teacher like Mrs Pandian.
Anyway, I think, going to India was better right? Where did you go Manipal?
I'm also the cikgu anti dadah. Here I'm threatening the kids. I look so menacing!!! If they ever did drugs "Watch out" I'll find you and then...... All empty threats. Oh I miss these kids so much.
Yes Lakshmi, I don't have any regrets for doing medicine. Yes, I did go to Manipal - how did you guess?? I think most Malaysian Indians go to Manipal, but I did see some Chinese boys in Manipal too, and one or two Malays.
Does it mean that you have quit teaching to prepare yourself for the wedding??
No I have not quit teaching yet. I had to stop because I went thru an operation and I wanted to finish the dissertaion. I couldn't manage school and meetings and wrtiting my paper. It was all too stress full.
But, at least now I'm getting up in the morning and I can hear the birds chirp and actually see the sun coming up.
Your Mrs Pandian sounds like an absolute tyrant. At least with Mrs Bhupalan, we only had to deal with her on occassion, when we bumped into her in the corridors or canteen.Can't even imagine dealing with someone like that on a daily basis. They should seriously consider giving psychological tests to ppl in certain professions like teaching before hiring them..many are dedicated who care about their students but some ( like your Mrs Pandian) seem to enjoy terrorising young minds & spirits
Param, I asked because my lovely soul mate completed Form5 in BBGS in 1975....went to VI for her Form 6.....wah, time flies.
Me went to estate schools, Param, for my secondary education, down
South...many Tamil and Malayalee classmates...huh, talking of long
Malayalee names, some of them are one yard long........BTW Param, I
still can speak a
bit of Tamil la...
Dear all, may I make a suggestion? why don't we start some new posts in our "Heart & Soul" forum to share some of the best memories we have during our childhood, primary school, high school, uni etc..? I think it will be fun especially some of u had attended the same school and may share some common memories...!!! We can title the post to something like "MGS and me"; "BBGS and me"; "CHS and ME"....or any creative titles!
That way, others can also share the joy and fun of our memories.
**Off topic mode off **
Edited by Ray on 16-July-06 at 8:42am
"Expect Less, GIve More ÉÙµãÒªÇó, ¶àµã¸¶³ö" Shop for Malaysian Food & Drinks at myTasteOfAsia.com
I dont blame you for not going..apart from the high cost, it is quite useless to have it in a hotel as you said..but maybe they dont large enough facilities at the school to accomodate the number of anticipated guests?
You are right, maybe the organisers don't have space. But, I would think, if we they could get nice tents and table and chair, have a really nice buffet dinner on the school ground and a really good DJ and some good music, I think they will be able to lower the costs. Moreover, parking would not be a hassle as well. I think, it would attract more Old Girls to come back, because it would be more nostalgic don't you think?
But, I promise you, if I do change my mind, I will tangkap, lots and lots of gambar - ok
So mahal.... (Mahal is cheep in Thai)...but I supposed its becoz of its location. You should be the organiser, Kummed, its only appropriate to have the reunion in School, so much of memories there ya !!! I was just writing to some old reunions being held next month, and most of them are not held in School!!!
You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot create polls in this forum You cannot vote in polls in this forum